Why??

IMG_0547Why do we Lie? Is it morally correct? Is it accepted by our society?? So we live in a self lie bubble? Ok ok I know it slow my roll one thought πŸ’­ at a time but this has been on my mind for a while now since someone put me in my place and make me feel like πŸ’© Yup mission accomplished…..Β 

So why do we do it? It causes problems (least to say) We lie, We ALL lie, ALL THE TIME!!! πŸ™„πŸ˜£yes even you, your moral highness πŸ‘‘ throw the first diamond πŸ’Ž πŸ˜‰Β 

We lie from pretending to like someone πŸ˜’ Ugh and even to loving grandmas food πŸ˜£πŸ™ˆπŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ We do not lie because we love to do it (of course not dumb asses πŸ‘ before I get some dumb remark) It happens because we want to be more agreeable, to make a social situation smoother and not awkward, to avoid disagreements but most of all to make us look πŸ‘€ “PERFECT” to make others LOVE ❀️ us (little do we know, we just push them away…further away)Β 

Lying is connected to self-esteem (ah ha yup πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ) studies (1000000% true) have shown that as soon as out self-esteem is being threatened vomit 🀒 comes from our mouths AKA Lies… yes lies are harmful they corrode trust and intimacy πŸ’ BUT πŸ™‹πŸΌ Can our lies be in order to protect our privacy and ourselves from malice?? We want to have an image we want others to view us as “perfect” and “strong” we even tend to lie to hide our feelings we become afraid to express ourselves and we lie we say we are totally fine when our insides are shattered πŸ’”πŸ–€ doesn’t seem like it but do we lie because we’ve been hurt and broken πŸ’” in the past? (Ok sorry πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ™ˆ going out of context here #doryeffect) Β 

We want to both look good when we are in the company of others especially people we care about family πŸ’•our significant other πŸ‘«(The ones we lie to 😞 Sorry) and we want to protect (KEYWORD) PROTECT our self worth. But seriously for the love of god πŸ™πŸ»β€οΈAnd for the LOVE ❀️ we need to grow for ourselves we need to stop βœ‹πŸ» we need to become more aware of the extend we tend to lie and let’s try to tattoo (jk) remember that HONESTY yields more genuine relationships πŸ‘«β€οΈ and trust πŸ™πŸ» It is like that old saying “Honesty is the best policy”

P.S. Don’t go brake grandmas heart ❀️ Please she’s the exception…Β 

xoxo

KC. Taylor ❀️