Ever been in love with someone but never “officially” been in a relationship with them?? Or broken up with your EX and continue to be part of their life?
You come there confident, their shoulder to lean on, you get to hear about their new love interest and how much they mean to them…. And well sometimes there is a 99.9% change you come the BEST FRIEND WITH BENEFITS (NO ATTACHMENTS) ❤ Many do not mind the obvious and most important benefit of the hassle free sex, this usually means neither mind to have any emotional involvement this often ends bad because after time you do get emotionally attach… And shit hits the fan because he obviously has no emotional attachment to you only to your boobs… and your MEOW
How and why do we do this…. My answer is I do not know maybe not to lose touch with them… because the love you have for them becomes bigger than you and their happiness is all you want… So you sit there give them LOVE ❤ advice hold in your tears and continue as if you have no feelings… You become a masochist, yes I said it right a Masochist of your feelings… A masochist that you will not leave because you are afraid to lose what you have and you rather continue to be hurt and heart-broken…
We all need to take a moment and get a mirror look at ourselves… yes we might be broken but we are beautiful inside and out and valuable we do not settle for the “friend” label we deserve more than that walk away…
Even a broken heart is able to heal with time… ❤